You Should | Tips to Empower Your Team
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π In this week's video, Coach George and I delve into the intricacies of using the phrase "you should." π€
π‘"You should" can often come across as judgmental, instructional, and ultimately unhelpful. It's a form of advice that implies I know what's best for you. π«
π We explore the four underlying reasons people seek advice from you:
1οΈβ£ Information
2οΈβ£ Validation
3οΈβ£ Abdication
4οΈβ£ Desperation
β‘οΈ Instead of jumping straight to solutions, we propose a more effective approach: asking better questions to understand why someone is seeking your guidance. By doing so, we empower them to find the right solution for themselves. π
Watch the full video to discover powerful strategies for offering support without resorting to "shoulds"! π₯
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