2023-07-10

You Should | Tips to Empower Your Team

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πŸ”‘ In this week's video, Coach George and I delve into the intricacies of using the phrase "you should." πŸ€”

πŸ’‘"You should" can often come across as judgmental, instructional, and ultimately unhelpful. It's a form of advice that implies I know what's best for you. 🚫

πŸ“š We explore the four underlying reasons people seek advice from you:

1️⃣ Information

2️⃣ Validation

3️⃣ Abdication

4️⃣ Desperation

⚑️ Instead of jumping straight to solutions, we propose a more effective approach: asking better questions to understand why someone is seeking your guidance. By doing so, we empower them to find the right solution for themselves. 🌟

Watch the full video to discover powerful strategies for offering support without resorting to "shoulds"! πŸŽ₯

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